Is your experience of the world not going the way you would like it to? Perhaps your experience is related to what you believe and think. How we think is determined by what we think we know, what we believe we know, and what our upbringing has taught us consciously and unconsciously. With this information, our subconscious and ego write programs in our biocomputer/brain and we then think and behave in the way that we become programmed to. This behavior is mostly reactionary. These beliefs and thoughts produce behavior that then reaps the rewards/consequences of the behavior. 

These beliefs and thoughts are actually pure energy, pure vibration, so we both attract and are attracted to similar energy fields in situations and with others. That is why we feel uncomfortable with certain people and situations, the energy is in discord with ours. And these feelings, thoughts, and beliefs often determine what we judge as “right” or “wrong.”

That’s right, we unconsciously judge and condemn others based on our beliefs. And these beliefs often are products of not only our genetics but are then reinforced by the environments we find ourselves in. We then judge and react accordingly.

Let’s say someone says something really insulting to you. Is it really insulting? Or, is it possible that due to, what therapists call “core limiting beliefs,” you experience the situation as insulting? That is their belief system, they may even think they have complimented you! How many of your negative and positive experiences in life depend on your beliefs? How many of your beliefs limit you from creating the life you want?