Another good way to identify underlying or subconscious thoughts is to look at your family’s behavior cycles and patterns.  These patterns are often genetic and you chose to come here with this particular family to experience and change those patterns.  Drawing out a genogram is a time honored way to do this.  You can research how to do this or contact me.  I used genograms a lot with clients when we were working face to face to determine and predict their patterns so they could change them with their thoughts and actions.

When you remember that everything you ask for is given, subconsciously or consciously, it gives us the power of making our own choices and using discernment to do so.  The universe then shows how efficient and powerfully it operates.  It’s like driving a car, if you fall asleep at the wheel, unintended experiences happen and you get the consequences of your action.  So stay awake and conscious, learn what your subconscious thoughts are so you are in full conscious control and creating what you intend.

You are the only one who knows what is right for you.  Connecting with your Higher Self, your True Self and the Divine can assist you in foraging your path.  Let your heart guide you, not your ego or subconscious – your loving heart which is connected with the Divine, and you can reverse your life.  You can create the life you truly DESIRE.

“Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.”- Rumi

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